This is where you stop demanding and trying to fix yourself and look to God. right now you are experiencing stress, fear and  Anger because of your thinking , You actually think you have to change  yourself by yourself. God has promised you in Ephesians 3:19 , 20  that you may really come to know through experience for yourselves the love of christ , which far surpasses mere knowledge: that you may be filled through all  your being unto the fullness of God himself. v.20. Now unto him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work in us, v.21 to him be all glory and honor. That Anger that's in you can only be removed as God works through you.  You are never alone when it comes to changing your life God is with you at all times.

James 4:1-2  Submit Yourselves to God 4 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. Marriages, relationships ,best friends what is the real issue that causes you to Quarrel ? People are not ready to compromise, People are not ready to listen to others opinions or to understand other points of view. individuals usually fight and argue when they stand on their point and they use their entire energy to win over the person they are fighting with. its a rarity to find someone who will listen pause and understand that everyone has a point of view but only Gods wisdom will direct you to the true Answer to settle the issue. emotions will never address solving the problem .lets address why your feeling these specific emotions 1st then you usually will find the root of the problem. example, If I naturally don't like the person will allow myself to use humility concerning listening to the persons view? NO. This is why you have to first submit yourself to GOD and allow him to design the specific answer to the apparent problem.

Anger is in the bosoms of fools (Eccl 7:9). Wise men defer anger (Pr 19:11). Wise men rule their spirits and are slow to anger (Pr 14:29). Why? Because they know that truly great men know how to rule their spirits and avoid anger (Pr 16:32). Why? Because they know that anger never helps them work the righteousness of God (Jas 1:19). Why? Because they know that angry haste in any such matter will bring them shame (Pr 25:8).

Angry men often glory in their quick temper as a sign of manliness or toughness, but only fools get angry quickly, because they are slaves to their base passions, any slight event will trigger their total collapse and ruin (Pr 25:28).

The lesson is clear enough. What will you do with it? Cut off acquaintances or friends who get angry quickly or often and hanse concern for your feelings or opinion. 

Proverbs 14:29, NIV: "Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly." Proverbs 14:29, ESV: "Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly.

An angry person cannot ignore offenses (Pr 19:11). they react without thinking, which leads to fights (Pr 15:18). There is little peace to those around them, because this person has either blown up recently or is likely to blow up soon. this person reacts out of the entire desire of the sourish realm with no consideration for those around. they are irrational, mean, depressed and they are only concerned about themselves.   

If you want peace and righteousness in your life, stay away from an angry people. A PERSON with a profane way of responding to life will corrupt your good manners (Pr 22:24-25). 

Ecclesiastes 7:9 Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger settles in the lap of a fool. Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger resides in the lap of fools. Control your temper, for anger labels you a fool. Be not quick in your spirit to become angry, for anger lodges in the heart of fools

God wants you to live life enjoying His shalom peace, wholeness, and completeness in every area. If you are facing a challenge today or if you find yourself in a situation that seems contrary to the promises of God, the answer to experiencing the peace of God that surpasses understanding and brings comfort, strength, anointing, wisdom, and power for your breakthrough is simple: feed on His immense love for you.

No matter what you are going through, it is your portion and inheritance to enjoy the Lord’s love for you daily. When you receive His love, you will find nourishment for your soul and see His power flow into areas of need.

This week, begin each day by spending your first few moments remembering that the Lord loves you. Say to Him, “Lord, I receive Your love for me. I thank You that Your perfect love casts out all fear, heals my body, and prospers all my relationships. I receive Your love today.”

Ephesians 4:31, NIV: "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice." Ephesians 4:31, ESV: "Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.

  The DEFINITION

1. Bitterness. Intense animosity or virulence of feeling: virulent. Virulent. Violently bitter, spiteful, or malignant; full of acrimony or enmity. Acrimony. Sharp or irritating bitterness of disposition or manner. Bitter. Obnoxious or irritating to the taste; disagreeable to the palate, the opposite of sweet; causing ‘the proper pain of taste.’

2. It includes revenge and hatred (II Sam 2:26), envy and covetousness (Acts 8:23), cursing (Ro 3:14), anger and criticism (Job 13:26; Ps 64:2-4; Ep 4:31), and trouble (Heb 12:15).

3. Bitterness is a soul and heart soured and made bitter by harboring animosity, envy, resentment, disappointment, revenge, unforgiveness, and grudges for another’s offences that result in an unhappy and critical and unkind and discontented disposition and outlook toward the offending parties or life in general.

2 Timothy 1:7 —  (NLT) 7For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, cowardness  but of power, love, and self-discipline. 2 Timothy 1:7 —  (NKJV) 7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. If you have any Fear it did not come from God, it's from outside forces. you must face your fears with the word of God to see that all fear is just False Evidence Appearing Real. what ever you give your attention to will feed your Spirit

JESUS FINDS JOY AND NOURISHMENT IN LOVING YOU.

The nature of God is to love. 

Say, “Father, I receive right now, your love for me. I thank You that perfect love casts out all fear, heals my body, and prospers all my relationships. Your perfect love evicts every fear from my life. I receive Your love right now.” 

23 But refuse foolish and ignorant speculations, knowing that they produce [a]quarrels. 24 The Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, skillful in teaching, patient when wronged, 25 with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth, 26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, having been held captive [b]by him to do his will. Heres where you decide if you will continue to fight your battles or will GOD fight them for you. Remember any fool can start a argument but it takes 2 fools to maintain one. we have to remain in a place of peace to maintain control over our souls never allow anyone to remove you from that place of peace.

I will trust in you lord ;
trust and confidence in the Lord is the best antidote against fears; who is unchangeable in his love, in him you will find everlasting strength, and he is faithful and true to every word   that he has promise; and this is why its so important to trust in him, and not be afraid. we can not allow what people attempt to do to us to never stop what God is doing in us. Romans 8:1–2 — (NKJV) 1 There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit. 2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death. You must be free of all condemnation to be free. you must realize that Jesus died for all of your sins past present and future.

1 John 2:16, NIV: "For everything in the world--the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life--comes not from the Father but from the world." 1 John 2:16, ESV: "For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world."

Today people actually live life through their phones. the world's view of any situation will change attitudes and opinions even before the actual stories in. what's next? you automatically choose a side {not according to God's view} but according to the world's opinion. Now what you are allowing to come in by way of what you hear and see is what's directing your Spirit as opposed to God's word.

In managing your Anger you must practice controlling the information coming through your phone so you can control what effects your Spirit. this will help you to understand that other people's issues are not yours and your opinion will not increase or decrease anyone's value  good or  bad. the goal is to make sure you have your inner spirit under control by directing your understanding by the word of God.

Romans 7:15-24 15  I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. 16 And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. 17 As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me.  21 So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me.

Question? how do I find Peace. ?

The phrase “peace offering” is in plural form. The Hebrew word for “peace offering” is “shelamim,” and it means “peace in all its completeness.” It encompasses more than just peace of mind, but includes peace in your relationships, peace in your emotions, and peace manifested as health and wholeness in your physical body. 

When you understand the peace offering, you receive that “shelamim” in every part of your being—spirit, soul, mind.

“Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ:”
— Romans 5:1 

Someone who has already been forgiven and is already righteous by the burnt and sin offerings then offers the peace offering.

Many times, we fail to realize that peace is not something we obtain just because we have put ourselves in a special posture (e.g. we have meditated long enough or have gone somewhere tranquil and peaceful). Peace is not something that you have to achieve but something you simply receive.

Jesus Himself said, “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you” (John 14:27 ).

By Grace Through Faith

2 And you were dead in the trespasses and sins 2 in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— 3 among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body[a] and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.[b] 4 But[c] God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, 5 even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— 6 and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, 7 so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. 8 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, 9 not a result of works, so that no one may boast. 10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

One in Christ

By the fruit of YOUR lips, a person enjoys good things; but the unfaithful crave violence. From the fruit of the mouth a person eats good, And the soul of the treacherous reveals violence.

A person shall eat good from the fruit of the mouth; but the desire of the faithless is violence. 

Prov 18:20 The Scripture says, “We will eat the fruit of our words.” That means we’re going to get exactly what we’ve been saying. Here is the key: you’ve got to send your words out in the direction you want your life to go. You cannot talk defeat and expect to have victory.21 The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

 Proverbs 13:2, "A man shall eat good by the fruit of his mouth

Be free from selfish motives, Pride

How do you Define Pride

Our SELF or Ego is basically who we are as a person. It’s not good or bad, it’s just what makes us, us. Unhealthy pride happens when we do or say things for the purpose of people praising us or making us feel good. Pride wants  to be praised. Unhealthy pride can give us an elevated view of SELF that is not accurate, but we truly start to believe it and act to reinforce what we've come to believe as true.  when someone questions or challenges the view of our SELF as not accurate, the fireworks begin.

Here are some of the definitions of pride I found

• Pride is being SELF-ish

• Thinking excessively about SELF

• Pride’s base is too much SELF-love

• Thinking the worth of our SELF is higher than it actually is

• SELF-worship

• Preoccupation with our image or SELF

• Pride is narcissism (in love with our image or SELF)

• Pride is SELF-centered or EGO-centric (everything revolves around us)

• Pride wants to keep the focus on SELF

• SELF-ness

Man’s Opinion vs. God’s

Some might say, “I don’t need to prove anything to anyone.” But the fact remains that people generally value man’s opinions over God’s. We care more about what other people think and say, while we very rarely consider what God has already said about us. All positive Affirmations are rooted in God's feelings for you. See God sees you through the eyes of Jesus Not what you've done. this is why he sent Christ to deliver you from the place of sin. now you never allow anyone's opinion to take you out of the place of righteousness. study who you are in his word then and only then will peoples opinions mean very little to you. Our only Opinion to consider is Gods Opinion of us. 

OK, by this point { if you've done all of the cubicles and studies }, you have developed the true ability to trust God to rid you of Anger. Anger is rarely a helpful emotion It usually causes overreaction, misjudging motives and actions without proper thought. then you start responding more severely than needed, Speaking with excessive harshness, neglecting counsel, and getting your priorities out of line. Therefore, a wise person will be very slow in letting anger develop.

Wisdom is the power of right judgment while understanding is correct comprehension. Both are compromised in proportion to the speed and intensity of anger. The faster you get angry, the less wisdom you have under the influence of that anger. The greater the intensity of your anger, the less understanding you have under its passionate heat. Anger causes unnecessary fights and leads fast to many sins (Pr 21:24; 26:21; 29:22; 30:3

We specifically designed these courses so no one will walk alone in the process of removing Anger and fear away from their lives.